Some People Have the Influence of Trees

Beach wood near my home in Newmarket. Uk.

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Some People Have the Influence of Trees

In a discussion with an attorney a while back, he told me about a client who routinely included him 

in their business planning sessions. He was puzzled because they didn’t seem to require his input

on many of their discussions. This caused him to doubt the value he was giving them.

I told him a story about attending a client’s son’s little league baseball game. During the game

her husband and the other fathers were busy yelling instructions. Meanwhile, the mothers were shouting encouragement. This exemplified two types of support: instructional (direct)

and emotional (indirect). The sons played better because not only were fathers giving tips

but moms were demonstrating their love and support through encouragement.

Knowing someone about whom you care is supporting you is a powerful motivator.

I then connected this to trees. When businesses hold retreats to do their planning, they often leave 

the work environment for a serene setting. The setting often has trees. Now, the trees don’t offer any practical business advice but they create an emotional environment conducive to planning

very much like the mothers were doing for their sons at the baseball game.

Relating it to him, I said that most likely the clients just felt better by having him there.

While they might not acknowledge this consciously, they will rationalize his attendance in some way. 

In this way, he was like a tree. While he might not provide any practical business advice,

he was creating a situation that encouraged his client to plan better.

The attorney chuckled and said he felt better about charging his fees, but the point is

that some of us have the influence of trees. Our mere presence can make people do better;

we don’t need to offer any pragmatic tips.

http://blog.omegazadvisors.com/2011/01/27/some-people-have-the-influence-of-trees/

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