Photo by M'reen . How many balances can you find in this photo taken at Ely UK
Analyse versus Feeling.
These thoughts and feelings were prompted by someone’s
Social Media comment.
I think my photo shows aspects of balance, skill, support
and wonder of growing.
M'reen Hunt
M'reen Hunt
Firstly I need to define what I mean by Analyse and
Feeling,
that is I need to understand the (apparent ) difference
between the two from my perspective
and in doing that it may give me an insight into the
perspective of others..
I think (therefore I am?) that to analyse is to use your
head (as if it was not part of your whole being?)
That to analyse somehow makes you less able to ‘feel’ and
that to ‘feel’ enables you to empathize
with others at a deep level of
understanding and so are warmer and less threatening.
Why do I feel the need to understand my feelings about these
words?
Why do I think about my perception of these words?
The prior sentence came intuitively and the second needed
thinking about, but most likely one will appeal
to you and the other will feel
alien in the same way that for some the glass is half full or half empty.
However, had my last words in the preceding sentence been
Think then I’m sure that I would just
have easily used Think as opposed to
Feel.
Why do I need to analyse the energy behind the title
statement;
is it because of my experiences when I was twice challenged
in the past?
Firstly during Group Working tuition where we were part
of an Experiential group I was challenged for Thinking as opposed to Feeling .
At the time I was a student counsellor and my fellow Group Working students were
practicing counsellors.
Secondly when I was challenged because I have the ability
to order my thoughts / understanding about
a situation and that was not an
expected ability amongst the other Life Coaching students.
I felt Different and Confused that it was not expected
that some others were able to do the same as I.
Yet we find it easy to accept that someone can create
music, see energy or understand calculus.
Surely I need to understand my differences so that I can appreciate
my energetic of felt sense responses
and so be kinder or more empathic to
myself and to others?
How do I experience Analysis and how do I experience
Feeling?
To me Analysis is a process of thoughts that order
themselves into a hierarchy of understanding in my head.
To me Feeling is an energy awareness in, on or around my
physical body.
The leading statement of this article has an energetic
charge for me due to the challenges described
above and my response to feeling
Different and Confused.
All words have an energy or belief (belief being the
building block of emotion). There is undoubtedly
an emotional response to a
word in isolation or to a word with inflection or in context with others.
As part of an experiment In the 1980s a TV programme was
aired whereby they asked you to record
how many words appeared at the top of
the screen and how many were at the bottom.
There was no ambiguity for me as the words were
definitely at the top or bottom of the screen when,
in fact, the words had been
broadcast in the exact centre of the screen; it was my emotional response
to
the word that placed it in a negative or positive position. That and the fact
that the subconscious
had been instructed to respond.
Back to the two sentences:
To me Analysis is
a process of thoughts that order themselves into understanding in my head.
To me Feeling is
an energy awareness in, on or around my physical body.
To me Analysis is a process of thoughts that order
themselves into understanding in my head.
This means that the thought processes demand to be
ordered and understood to the best of
my current ability. This process often
leads to incorporating a ‘balance’ thought or to another awareness
or to a
connection previously not made.
If not released these thought s will continue to
circulate in my head until the process of writing and explaining all this to
myself provides that release or completes the Gestalt – the circle.
To me Feeling is an energy awareness in, on or around my
physical body.
This is equally strong and demanding but in a different
way as it doesn’t have words to describe it
because words are a function of the
modern brain.
These energy feelings of, “Ah, there you are” are like
the sun coming out from behind a cloud
as now they can be consciously
recognised, appreciated and which if appropriate can be released;
with generally
the opposite energy being welcomed back into my system as this is powerfully
completing.
Currently I’m studying a subject that is out of my
comfort zone and so challenges some of my beliefs,
it also taps into my
dyslexic tendencies and also the outcome of my study is important to me.
On occasions I’ve been aware of the energy of mild panic which
I’ve simply released
or I’ve been curious as to what that particular feeling
means to me before releasing .
I think that to trust your higher self / yourself / your magnificent
self- however you may describe that state and to just accept that you can
release that fear energy –and it will be OK is appropriate.
Sometimes I Think and Feel that it is important or
interesting to understand where the ‘panic’ comes from
to the best of my
ability; as understanding comes before acceptance which comes before release.
Some
people might use the word Forgiveness (of the self or of others) but I prefer
to use ‘release’
or the phrase “Letting go”.
P.S. I’ve noticed that if I’ve said that I don’t
necessarily agree fully with someone’s statement
on Social Media that my
disagreement has been ignored.
Why?
I wonder; is Social Media an act of self congratulatory
navel gazing?
Or am I being a typical Sagittarian and throwing a ball
into the conversation
just to see how it bounces?
The thought presented itself as, “how’s your navel?”
I had to respond. Ha, ha, ha, spot on, someone has the
job to do!
It’s an ‘inny’ by the way, and therefore I think inwardly,
I also feel.
We could garner millions for a study of navels.
Innies working out from their self observation. The
extreme inny being an autistic person.
Outies working from a world perspective in towards
themselves. Dash I forget the term and who coined it, the extreme outy not
having an inner life but accruing status and value from some other,
a job, organisation or quest in life.
There must be flatties, but I’ve not heard of them.
People who are balanced at some point in the dualities
of life, maybe only for
a period but balanced nonetheless.
Perhaps you’d like to checkout my sister blog www.innermindreading.blogspot.com
and find easy, fast and efficient ways of working with
the issues or little unpleasantness’s in your life.
I am now featuring aspects
of my upcoming internet programme to teach Inner Mind Reading.
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