Showing posts with label hypnotherapy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hypnotherapy. Show all posts

Thursday, 29 January 2015

Hypnosis for Drawing Love and Prosperity Into Your Life


Hypnosis for Drawing Love and Prosperity Into Your Life
Julie Griffin, www.hypnosistoday.com

Hello Reader! I have some important messages to share with you.
These messages will enable you to thrive and to find your ideal love
(should you be ready and willing).
If you are looking to draw love and prosperity into your life (or to help others to do so)
please realize that the acceptance of the following concepts will help:

You are not here to suffer.
There is no punishing force up in the heavens causing you suffer.
You create your own despair anytime that you behave in a way
that is contradictory to your manifesting your love and prosperity.

Love, happiness, and prosperity are your birthright.
We all have an equal shot at creating love and prosperity in our lives. 
Those who have found love and prosperity did so because they focused on and took steps 
towards the creation of love and prosperity. Everything that you have in your life
is something that you have consciously (or unconsciously) drawn into yourself.
Whatever is missing from your life is missing only because you have not given
the proper energy towards creating what it is that you want.

The misery of others is not yours to carry.
Even if others around you have suffered greatly, failed at creating their own happiness
and prosperity (or died) you need to realize that that has nothing to do with you
because we are all on our own separate paths.
While it is right and proper to be empathetic and compassionate to those around you,
it is inappropriate to become so wrapped up in the hardships or failures of others
that you become unable to manifest your own highest good. You can affect dramatic changes 
in your capacity to love and thrive financially simply by making the right choices in your life.

How to Actively Draw Love and Prosperity Into Your Life
  1. Forgive the past. Anger and hate weigh you down physically, emotionally, and spiritually.     Therefore it is important to forgive (let go) yourself for anything that you have done wrong                 and to forgive anyone who has wronged or injured you. In doing so, you will not be weighed down by negative emotions and you will have more energy to focus on manifesting your goals.
M’reen. A positive energy is to repeat:
Through the divine in me, I forgive the human in you and in me,
which caused whatever the problem was or is. I tend to repeat this (with my issue in mine)
to the four compass points (the four walls) and to heaven and earth (the ceiling and floor)

  1.  Let go of the past. No matter what has happened to you in the past (in business or in love relationships) you need to imagine that you can wipe the slate clean  and start fresh.                         Living in the past and holding onto old failures will cripple your ability to thrive.                                         You should view the past as learning experiences from which you are now able to grow from.
M’reen. Holding onto a grudge or lost love depletes your energy, keeps you stuck in the mud.
Sometimes it takes years to free that energy and if so keep giving that energy as much love
and permission to be free as is possible. It is rather like melting an iceberg,
it will melt if you keep it warm. Try and imagine that feeling where ever it is in your body or space, whatever shape or colour you imagine and put it on a tropical beach.

  1.  Become a vessel of power. You can empower yourself in many ways.                                                                  A few of these ways follow:                                                                                                                                                *create health in your physical being by eating healthfully, exercising regularly,                                       and avoiding toxic substances                                                                                                                                               *create health in your mind by consistently feeding yourself positive thoughts                                             *create health in your heart by letting love and happiness shine through you                                             *define and embrace your own spirituality. When your physical, emotional, and spiritual sides              are all healthy and functioning as one well-maintained unit you will have the energy                                and power that you need  to manifest your goals.
M’reen.  Make a note or drawing of these points 
and put it inside a cupboard drawer that you open each morning. 
Just think, 1 gentle stretch exercise done is much better than ½ an hour not achieved.
Consider the physically proven fact that thinking, 
‘I love you, you are pure love’ to a glass of water changed its molecules, 
whereas thinking,  ‘I hate you, you are worthless’ distorted the molecules.  
You are principally water! Have ‘I love you, you are pure love’ pinned inside a cupboard door.
Imagine that this switches on a little light inside you that can shine through you so that you walk round with a little glow. Actively find something that you appreciate (a beautiful flower
or cloud) and feel your glow a little more brightly. See someone tired or angry
and let some of your glow overflow past your boundaries and cover them. This works.

  1.  Identify what it is that you want. Allow time for soul-searching that will enable you to identifying what life pursuits will totally fulfil you. It is important that you are truly excited by whatever it is that you are doing if you want to be successful  and happy while doing it.
M’reen. Check out this article

  1.  Visualize what it is that you want. Picture in your mind yourself totally fulfilled in both love                and business concerns. Paint a bright and vivid picture in your mind of exactly the kind of success and love that you wish to live inside of. Continue to focus on and clarify this picture each day.            Make sure you allow room inside the picture for possibilities that can enhance your life                          that you are not yet consciously aware of yet.
M’reen. This can be achieved by adding:  “…… or even better.”

  1.  Set and achieve goals. Set small goals that you can readily achieve                                                                that will lead to the fulfilment of your larger goals.                                                                                            Congratulate yourself each time you meet a small goal.                                                                                            Don't sit around waiting for things to happen-make things happen.                                                                   Take on the thoughts and actions of a successful person. Assume that your success is                                 a foregone conclusion because you will consistently act in a way that creates your success.

  1.  Ask for help when you need it. This help could be from a friend, a business person, a teacher,              from a spiritual realm, or even from yourself. Often it is the case that others will be delighted             to assist you. By asking for what you need, you open a door that allows others the pleasure                   of helping you  and a window that enables you to obtain what it is that you need.                                       If you are the type that feels that you have to do everything yourself                                                             and that it is inappropriate to ask others for help                                                                                                         then you might want to take time and consider if these thoughts are serving you or harming you.

  1.  Like yourself and love yourself. If you want others to be drawn to you, you must feel good                   about yourself. You will only be able to truly love another when you are capable of loving yourself. Imagine that you have the ability to draw love and energy from the universe into the core                   of your being. Feel yourself filling up to the brim with this universal love and energy.                               Imagine that there is a dimmer switch inside of you that controls your own love and joy light                 and that you are now actively turning up your love and joy light a little bit brighter each day.

  1.  Take charge of your magnetism and charisma. As you turn up your own love and joy light                        your magnetism and charisma will automatically surface. You may utilize your magnetism                      and charisma to draw loving, helpful, and caring people into your life.

  1. Create a state of mind in which you will only draw helpful, loving people into your life.                           Project an energy field around you that prevents harmful people and elements                                           from entering into your life or consciousness.
M’reen. A useful imagination is to walk around in what I call a pineapple, 
this is a net that completely surrounds you 
and as a net allows in all that is beneficial or needs your attention
but where the net crosses there are little antennae that act like a lightening rod 
and attract any negatives and sent them straight to earth.

  1. Begin to actively call love and prosperity into yourself. Get up each morning and call out                         to the universe (or your higher power) to send prosperity and love your way.                                             Each night take time to identify all your blessings and to give thanks                                                                   for all the wonderful things that have come into your life.

  1. Have the wisdom to see that sometimes things come to you in an unexpected way.                                 Develop the insight and vision to see what is truly a blessing and what is not. Trust your instincts.

There is one important concept that I have not yet spoken to you of
and that concept is that your life can be fun. 
Take time to have fun, to laugh, to sing, to dance, and to make friends. 
Your friends will help to get you through your darkest days and play with you on your brightest days. 
In the course of life you may have many loves come and go your friends will always be there for you.
Realize too, that when you are out in life making friends and having fun that love will find you! 

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blogs:
www.innermindworking.blogspot.com            gives many ways for you to work with the stresses of life
www.turbochargedreading.blogspot.com       describes the steps to reading in the way your mind prefers
www.happyartaccidents.blogspot.com            just for fun
Advanced Reading Skills FaceBook group

To quote the Dr Seuss himself, “The more that you read, the more things you will know.
The more that you learn; the more places you'll go.”


Sunday, 10 November 2013

Magic, chocolate and hypnotherapy.

Photo by M'reen
             
Magic and CHOCOLATE & Hypnotherapy
You might want to think of cigarettes, bed wetting, fear of dogs, etc.
For children who are very young, drawing a scary dream and then putting it in prison
(or suitable concept) can be effective.

Strength is the capacity to break a chocolate bar into four pieces
with your bare hands--and then just eat one of the pieces. -  Judith Viorst


Someone told me that a fellow hypnotherapist suggested to his client that she put certain foods into a prison and that now she no longer buys those foods. Magic!
Yes, this is possible, if it is right for that client at that time.
Neither you nor I can forcibly incarcerate those foods/habits/attitude/pain etc.
The work we do together can bring about the circumstances when this can be 
effective suggestion therapy for you.

Let’s take chocolate. There is no reason as to why you should never eat chocolate again in fact The Montignac Method of Eating regards 70% coca fat chocolate to be a beneficial food to eat. You will not put on weight as there is hardly any sugar.

At one time I would eat chocolate until it was finished even if I had to have a number of cups 
of tea to help it go down. A Snickers bar was my silent banner to the world that I was upset, 
“Hey look world, I’m upset, see I can prove it, just look at this Snickers bar,” unfortunately 
the world didn’t care.
Equally unfortunately, should I be upset now I have to deal with it and let it go as 
I can wander up and down the supermarket aisles, chocolate, biscuits, cakes, goodies 
and there is nothing there for me, nothing appeals.
Now, if someone offers me a chocolate I can casually choose to accept one or more and move on. How did all this come about? I don’t know because I haven’t specifically worked on chocolate, but I have worked on ‘letting go’ and I will show you how to do this in your own home.

Two people have given themselves one session on ‘chocolate’, this is not really fair 
to themselves or to me; one session might work but if ‘chocolate’ is tied in with a larger problem then we are only going to be able to work with the ‘chocolate’ part of the problem. I would rather work with the whole jigsaw, rather than just one piece and expect the rest of the pieces to fall into place and complete the picture. When we do work on the whole jigsaw, we don’t work on each individual piece as that would take far too long, we connect big massive chunks together, actually it’s your subconscious mind that works, we just undo the blocks to success.

One person chose to work with past life therapy, she went into a past life which confused me until we had finished the session. She moved from that past life to an incident when she 
was a teenager and we worked on that memory.
Later I realised that the past life or past life ‘story’ gave her the life experience that she desired and could not have in this life. After this session she found that she had more choice in whether or nor she ate sweets in general. This did not solve her weight issue as it was only one piece in her jigsaw she titled ‘Weight’. This is possibly not the correct title, as weight may be a piece for the jigsaw titled ‘self-esteem, confidence, perceived destiny, protection, role model etc.’

The other person chose to work on the emotional component in her life regarding chocolate. 
In this particular case she was using colours to represent the emotions surrounding chocolate and we worked together to balanced these colours/emotions. She did not eat chocolate for two weeks and then decided to test herself and found herself eating chocolate. 
I suggested that she had shown that she could live happily without chocolate and that she do one of two things, a) deal with the rest of her chocolate issue with myself in hypnotherapy or 
b) use the skills she had learned and work on it herself. She chose the latter as she knew she had some time coming up to concentrate on this and other areas in her life without the current stresses.
I don’t know how she has progressed, but we both know that she has the ability to succeed.

Why didn’t ‘it’ work? It did, it worked for two weeks but something got in the way, the ‘something’ in a habit situation occasionally takes a second session as you can only get rid of 
as much as is good for you today. For example it may be too much for you to get rid of everything in one fell swoop, this may be emotionally more than you are able to cope with 
(this is expanded upon in other areas) or those around you may become subconsciously negative if you change too rapidly, even though they really want this for you. 
All this sounds rather negative, but once you’ve become the person that never did X again, there is really nothing more to say. One person did not smoke for 29 years, and then she started again. Why? I think there were rather good reasons and once those reasons have gone I expect that she will stop smoking quite naturally.
If not she has proved to herself that hypnotherapy is effective.

To recap, one lady put items in prison and she no longer buys those foods.
I was a chocoholic. I used food to deal with emotions. 
One lady always bought 3-4 chocolate bars from the vendor at the station, it was suggested that she could not see the vendor; she no longer bought chocolate on her way to work.
Chocolate can be a choice, an enjoyable choice.

Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blog www.innermindreading.blogspot.com and find
easy, fast and efficient ways of working with the issues or little unpleasantness’s in your life.

Saturday, 2 November 2013

My glimpse of Death


My glimpse of Death 


Death happens to all of us, it is not a failure
and neither is this article a story of failure, in fact it’s rather beautiful.

My reading of the Tibetan Buddhist’s idea of death is that one dies well,
that is without leaving any negative emotions that tie you to the earth plain.

If death is fearful, then that is a different issue and one that can be considered
at anytime so that one can enjoy all stages of life.
Hypnotherapy or counselling and many other disciplines can help.
An osteopath helped my energy flow after the death of my eldest daughter.

I met a lady three weeks or so before her death from cancer, I would not have known she was ill if I had not have been told, she had a surrounding of love
that was recognisable to me. Also recognisable to me was the worm of fear
that I would not be such a ‘good’ and 'courageous’ person.
Cancer through the eyes of ten women, P Duncker & V Wilson
ISBN 0 04 440980 X  recognises and exposes this worm.

There is much I cannot remember surrounding the time when my mother died
of cancer. We were unaware of the cancer during the proceeding weeks
to hospitalisation even though she was exceptionally tired. Although she was only 64, I think she was prepared for death and accepted death.
I think she managed her illness and death and that that was respected and accommodated by the medical personnel and chaplaincy of the hospital.
She was cared for with care at Airedale hospital. 

Some years later I had a ‘dream’ regarding cancer and death
that I am happy to share. When I recounted this ‘dream experience’ to a complete non-believer who’s cancer had returned she found it to be ‘strangely comforting’.
I was not the sort of person ‘weird’ things happened to.
Asleep, I was suddenly aware of eyes penetrating mine,
I thought, ‘OK, I’m awake,’ and drifted off.
Then the eyes demandingly went right through my pupils, ‘OK, I’M AWAKE.’
I was aware of a tiny me standing a long way back from a vast heaven to earth curtain or time warp, behind this were bleachers, those serried ranks of benches one higher than the other, they stretched from left to right filling the scene.
On one bench sat an image I took to be my mother, my impression was of an indistinct shape wearing a white nighty type gown, a long way behind her (in time) was another figure, I took this figure to her left to be a female relative.
My mother communicated telepathically and I responded in crude, cumbersome, pedantic earth language, I felt graceless and inarticulate and little, yet understood and accepted. Whenever a reply was require from me, I responded with, “That’s cool”, this is NOT a phrase I use!
My present memory is that she repeated that cancer is just part of life and that was fine and without any visible indication she asked the other lady to confirm this and the confirmation was supportive. She said that death was just part of life, there was no pain.
The whole experience was just so indescribably naturally peaceful.
The acceptance and universality throughout time was inclusive.

The photo is of my family, I’ve never met my paternal grandfather– yet.


Perhaps you’d like to check out my sister blog www.innermindreading.blogspot.com and find
easy, fast and efficient ways of working with the issues or little unpleasantness’s in your life.